Have you ever been in situations where you felt the least bit motivated? Where you find yourself saying “I can’t!” instead of “I CAN!” I think we all have these moments but what’s encouraging is what I learned from Charles Duhigg’s book, Smarter Faster Better: The Transformative Power of Real Productivity about motivation. Being motivated is like a skill that we can practice. It’s something we could work on and improve!
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How do you improve motivation? Duhigg discusses two simple ways you can do it. But first let’s define the word Motivation. It is derived from the Latin root ‘mot’ which means ‘to move’. Basically Motivation is what moves us towards action. To further break it down, motivation is categorized as either extrinsic or intrinsic.
If I ask what drives you to exercise and you answer, my job offers a gift certificate to employees who logs at least 10000 steps everyday – that’s an example of extrinsic motivation. They are external factors driving you to take action on a specific task. On the other hand, if you answered it leaves me feeling more energetic and less stressed, that would be an intrinsic motivator. The two key concepts discussed by Duhigg focuses on building your intrinsic or self motivation.
Chore into Choice
The bottom line of making a choice is to give us a sense of control. As human beings, our natural inclination is to assert control. Do you like it when people tell you what to do? Do you respond better when given choices?
When people believe they are in control, they tend to work harder and push themselves more. They are, on average, more confident and overcome setbacks faster. People who believe they have authority over themselves often live longer than their peers. – Charles Duhigg, Smarter Faster Better
Here’s how I’ve applied this concept when I lack the motivation to run –
I’m currently training for the Rock n Roll San Diego Marathon in June – my 7th marathon! Being consistent with training is one of many factors that would help me achieve the goal of a BQ this year. (Yikes! I still can’t believe I set this stretch goal!) However I’ve had days where I want to sit on the couch and do absolutely nothing. Here’s where the power of choice comes in – I tell myself to put on my running shoes and go out there…but ONLY FOR 10 MINUTES. When I do, I usually feel much better and before you know it, I’m out there for up to 30 min even to an hour!
Apparently it doesn’t even matter what type of choice you make. It’s the amount of control you feel that matters most. Try it out. When you feel less enthused about a specific task, start making choices and see what happens.
Let’s say you’re involved in a challenging situation. How do you keep going? This is when you ask yourself why and find an answer that is most meaningful to you. The why has to align with your values and bigger goals.
In my *Evoke Healthy Habits facebook group, I posted the question “What is your biggest frustration with your health right now?” A couple women responded they lack the motivation. I think when we connect physical activity or healthy eating with what we value the most, we’re more apt to prioritize it. So think about it – are you struggling with motivation when it comes to your health? Then ask yourself why a healthy lifestyle should matter to you.
Self motivation becomes easier when we see our choices as affirmations of our deeper values and goals. –Charles Duhigg, Smarter Faster Better
My recent Whole 30 experience has led me to ask Why a few times this past month. The why definitely affirmed my desire to determine if the unusual symptoms I’ve had for the past several months is related to food sensitivities. The re-introduction process starts this week so I’m interested in seeing if any food groups are sources of irritants in my body. I admit the symptoms are less frequent and I’ve stayed healthy all month despite being in the midst of the cold and flu season. Plus my skin finally cleared up! Imagine having to deal with acne as a 41-yr old (cringe..) I’m definitely pleased with the results.
From I CAN’T to I CAN
It’s reassuring to know that we can improve our self-motivation with practice. The most effective way in doing it is:
ASSERT CONTROL THROUGH CHOICES and connect your actions to DEEPER MEANING by asking WHY.
Please share what you do to keep yourself motivated to achieve your health and fitness goals.
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